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Faye Hatoum's avatar

Coucou Liz!

What a brilliant idea. I haven’t had the chance to join the community chats yet, but I hope you do more of them - another brilliant idea!

I wanted to ask you and this community for advice on how to deal with my disappointment in a friend who doesn’t seem too bothered by current world events that impact me greatly. I am very lucky to have a wonderfully supportive community near and far of friends and family who care and support me, but it has been really heartbreaking to feel this let down by a friendship I care deeply about. I’ve tried to explain the extent of the grief with the assumption that they just don’t know, or to educate them about the specific injustice of this ‘growing stain on our collective conscious’ but it doesn’t seem to change much of the dynamic, and they seem more preoccupied about wedding outfits and my weekend plans. Am I expecting too much of them? Do I reconsider the friendship? If so, how? And how can I communicate with someone I love who just won’t listen, or worst, doesn’t care about something so important to me?

Thank you for any advice you may have! I also wanted to say a big thank you for inspiring me to write more in this moment in time, as an Arab woman in NYC with a very hyphenated identity - about the importance of community and care, and how we heal only together. I’m working on a book I feel very excited about already. Mille merci for all you do and the role you have had in encouraging me.

Love,

Faye x

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Roxanne's avatar

Hi Liz! Long time fan here! Thank you for creating this space for us. I am curious to know what reputable news sources you would recommend? I currently utilize NPR podcasts and The Skimm newsletter. I want to ensure I am taking in relevant and correct news.

Thank you!

Roxanne

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