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Ida Santana MD's avatar

Awww Liz. This is such a bravehearted story to share. Sending you and Monica loads of love and support in the wake of this fertility try that didn’t work out. I too have been through over 14 years of IVFs, GCs, donor eggs, divorce, getting married again, trying again.

The best advice I got was from a Chinese Medicine doctor qi gong Master Dr. Yang in NYC who did accupuncture for me and gave me the mantra “No ‘What if’s’.”

Stay present. Don’t go down the rabbit holes.

As Brenè would say the antidote for foreboding joy is gratitude. Glad you and Monica found each other this lifetime.

Sending love from Buenos Aires. 💛 Ida

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Ruth Ann Harnisch's avatar

In my coaching career, I find this nameless-to-the-client condition to be so common. I ask, “What does this feeling remind you of?” and the stories pour out.

I'm sorry for the sadness and suffering in your experience, and grateful for the sharing.

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